As useful as this might sound, it’s the kiss of death for true intimacy, because it leads us away from the most essential ingredient of all—authenticity.
Thankfully, there is a good amount of thoughtful, research-based, and effective guidance available to us, but the field is mostly populated by the “make yourself more appealing” school of thought.
That’s what it means for 37-year-old Marquetta Riley, anyway.
On a recent Friday night, Riley, a tall, fit woman, stood before her vanity, a full spread of makeup and hair products in front of her.
This misleading advice falls into two main categories: While there may be some nuggets of truth in this advice, in the end, it promises love, yet delivers insecurity and disappointment. Because it’s impossible to be authentic when you’re struggling to play a role.
Following the advice below is like exhaling while holding your breath: Not to mention the stream of exhortations to tone up, look younger, accessorize better—it’s endless.
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